Quickie (sex)

A quickie is sexual intercourse that a couple may engage in when the time available is very limited. The quickie may arise from a spontaneous sexual desire by the parties or be a regular or planned arrangement.

Because of the limit on available time, foreplay would generally be skipped and the woman may not have had enough time to lubricate naturally.[1] In a planned encounter, the partners may dress in a manner that reduces the time needed for undressing. For example, the woman may wear a wide skirt or a front closing dress and open crotch lingerie, thongs to be pushed aside or no underwear, especially pantyhose. The man may dispense with a jacket and belt. A quickie between a heterosexual couple may generally satisfy only the man's sexual desire.[2]

Quickies may be a solution to unequal sexual desire in a relationship, but if they become the only form of sex, with only the man getting sexual satisfaction, the relationship may suffer.[2] Author and psychologist Joel Block has suggested that the quickie is a necessary part of a relationship, and suggests practical ways for both partners to enjoy the experience.[3]

References

  1. Hilda Hutcherson (2006). Pleasure: A Woman's Guide to Getting the Sex You Need, Want, and Deserve. Perigee. ISBN 0-399-53286-2.
  2. William Cutrer (2007). Sexual Intimacy in Marriage. Sandra Glahn. Kregel Publications. ISBN 0-8254-2437-2.
  3. Joel Block (2006). Art of the Quickie: Fast Sex, Fast Orgasm, Anytime, Anywhere. Quiver. ISBN 1592332404.


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