|Born||21 December 1917|
|Died||23 January 2019 101) (aged|
|Occupation||Literary editor, author|
|Alma mater||Lady Margaret Hall, University of Oxford|
|Genre||Novels and memoirs|
|Notable works||After a Funeral, Somewhere Towards the End|
|Notable awards||OBE, PEN/Ackerley Prize, Costa Book Award, National Book Critics Circle Award|
Her parents were Major Lawrence Athill (1888–1957) and Alice Carr Athill (1895–1990), and Athill had a brother, Andrew, and a sister, Patience. Her maternal grandfather was biographer William Carr (1862–1925). Her maternal grandmother's father was James Franck Bright (1832–1920), a Master of University College, Oxford.
After the war, Athill helped her friend André Deutsch establish the publishing house Allan Wingate, and five years later, in 1952, she was a founding director of the publishing company that was given his name. She worked closely with many Deutsch authors, including Philip Roth, Norman Mailer, John Updike, Mordecai Richler, Simone de Beauvoir, Jean Rhys, Gitta Sereny, Brian Moore, V. S. Naipaul, Molly Keane, Stevie Smith, Jack Kerouac, Charles Gidley Wheeler, Margaret Atwood, and David Gurr.
The first book of her own writing to appear was the short story collection An Unavoidable Delay (1962), and she published two further works of fiction: a novel entitled Don't Look at Me Like That (1967) and in 2011 another volume of stories, Midsummer Night in the Workhouse. She was best known, however, for her books of memoirs, the first of which was Instead of a Letter in 1963. These memoirs were not written in chronological order, Yesterday Morning (2002) being the account of her childhood. She also translated various works from French.
Athill was appointed an Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) in the 2009 New Year Honours for services to literature.
In 2011 Granta Books published Instead of a Book: Letters to a Friend, a collection of letters from Athill to the American poet Edward Field chronicling their intimate correspondence spanning more than 30 years (he kept all her letters, she kept none of his). Granta Books published two further titles by her: Alive, Alive Oh!: And Other Things That Matter in 2015 and A Florence Diary in 2016.
According to journalist Mick Brown, "She attributes her flight from convention to her first love, Tony Irvine, an RAF pilot with whom she fell in love at the age of 15, and who was blessed, she says, 'with a very open approach to life.'" The failure of her relationship with Irvine (referred to as Paul in Instead of a Letter), her "great love", "blighted" many years: "My affairs after that, I kept them trivial if I possibly could. I was frightened of intensity, because I knew I was going to be hurt." Irvine went to war in Egypt, and eventually stopped replying to Athill's letters, then two years later requested an end to their engagement. At age 43, Athill suffered a miscarriage.
She called herself a "sucker for oppressed foreigners", an inclination she characterized as a "funny kink" in her maternal instinct: "I never particularly wanted children, but it came out in liking lame ducks." One lover, the Egyptian author Waguih Ghali, a depressive, committed suicide in her flat. Her most remarkable affair, about which she later wrote a book, was "a fleeting, and distinctly odd" relationship with Hakim Jamal, an American Black radical who asserted he was God and was a cousin of Malcolm X. Jamal's other lover, Gale Benson, was murdered by Trinidadian Black Power leader Michael X. Jamal was killed by others a year later. Athill's account of these events was published in 1993 as Make Believe: A True Story.
Her longest relationship was with the Jamaican playwright Barry Reckord. The affair lasted eight years, but he shared her flat for forty. She described it as a "detached" sort of marriage.
She moved into a flat in a north London residence for the "active elderly" at the end of 2009, saying about this decision: "Almost at once on arrival at the home I knew that it was going to suit me. And sure enough, it does. A life free of worries in a snug little nest....". Even during her old age, she reemphasized that she had no regrets about not having her own children, saying "I dearly love certain young people of my acquaintance and am happy to have them in my life, but am I sorry that they are not my descendants? No,..".
- 1963: Instead of a Letter. London: Chatto & Windus. New edition, Granta Books, 2001. ISBN 978-1862074545
- 1986: After a Funeral – winner of the J. R. Ackerley Prize for Autobiography. London: Jonathan Cape. ISBN 978-1847086334
- 1993: Make Believe. London: Sinclair-Stevenson. Reprinted, Granta Books, 2012. ISBN 978-1847086327
- 2000: Stet: a memoir, London: Granta Books. ISBN 1-86207-388-0
- 2002: Yesterday Morning: a very English childhood. London: Granta Books. ISBN 978-1847084262
- 2008: Somewhere Towards the End – winner of Costa Prize for Biography. London: Granta Books. ISBN 978-1-84708-069-1
- 2009: Life Class: the Selected Memoirs of Diana Athill. London: Granta Books. ISBN 1-84708-146-0
- 2011: Instead of a Book: Letters to a Friend. London: Granta Books. ISBN 978-1-84708-414-9
- 2015: Alive, Alive Oh!: And Other Things That Matter. London Granta Books. ISBN 978-1783782543
- 2016: A Florence Diary. London Granta Books. ISBN 978-1-78378-316-8
- "Diana Athill". Front Row. 26 April 2013. BBC Radio 4. Retrieved 18 January 2014.
- Diana Athill, "'Getting things right': Recalling her life as one of the 20th century's most acclaimed editors, Diana Athill, who has just turned 90, was a pioneer of the confessional memoir. Her new book is about ageing". The Guardian, 5 January 2008.
- Patullo, Polly (24 January 2019) Diana Athill obituary in TheGuardian.com. Retrieved 24 January 2019
- John Preston, "Diana Athill: Being the other woman was what I was best at", The Daily Telegraph, 11 January 2011. Retrieved 1 November 2016.
- "Lawrence Francis Lambert Athill". Ancestry.com. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
- "William Carr (1862–1925)". Ancestry.com. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
- Prominent alumni, Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford, UK.
- Diana Athill, Chapter One, Stet. Excerpted in The Guardian, 3 August 2001.
- "Stet: An Editor's Life (review)", Publishers Weekly, 1 March 2001.
- Kira Cochrane, "Not bad for 91", The Guardian, 5 January 2009.
- "Diana Athill". Desert Island Discs. BBC. 2004. Retrieved 3 July 2010.
- "Costa Winners 2006 – present" (PDF). costabookawards.com. Archived from the original (PDF) on 28 October 2012. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
- "All Past National Book Critics Award Winners and Finalists". bookcritics.org. Archived from the original on 27 April 2019. Retrieved 3 January 2013.
- "No. 58929". The London Gazette (Supplement). 31 December 2008. p. 9.
- "Diana Athill: 'Who is that woman who looks like me?'" The Telegraph, 29 June 2010. Retrieved 30 June 2010.
- Jess Cartner-Morley (28 March 2013). "The 50 best-dressed over-50s – in pictures". The Guardian.
- "Diana Athill introduces Instead of a Book: Letters to a Friend", YouTube, 3 November 2011.
- Bill Eichenberger, "Diana Athill's 'Letters to a Friend' is one side of an interesting friendship", Cleveland.com, 7 June 2012.
- Mick Brown, "Diana Athill on letters, lovers & letting go". The Telegraph, 23 September 2011. Retrieved 21 August 2012.
- Erica Wagner, "Diana Athill", The Gentlewoman, Issue 14, Autumn & Winter 2016.
- ""Diana Athill: Why I moved into an old people's home"". The Guardian. 17 April 2009.
- Athill, Diana (16 November 2012). "Diana Athill: why I never became a gran". The Guardian. ISSN 0261-3077. Retrieved 28 March 2019.
- "Writer Diana Athill dies aged 101". 24 January 2019. Retrieved 28 March 2019.
- Lea, Richard (24 January 2019). "Diana Athill, writer and editor, dies aged 101". The Guardian.
- Fox, Margalit (24 January 2019). "Diana Athill Dies at 101; Wrote Cleareyed Memoirs of Love and Sex". Nytimes.com. Retrieved 24 January 2019.
- Armitstead, Claire (15 December 2017). "Diana Athill: 'Enjoy yourself as much as you can without doing any damage to other people'". The Guardian. Retrieved 9 February 2019.
Her beloved nephew and heir, Phil Athill
- "Gallery History". Abbott and Holder. Archived from the original on 9 February 2019. Retrieved 9 February 2019.
- Correia, Arlindo. Profile of Diana Athill; a selection of her articles extracted from various British and American publications
- Overview of published comments on Stet, Complete Review
- Short BBC interview with Fiona Bruce, BBC News, 18 January 2009
- Costa Book Awards series on YouTube, 15 June 2009
- Interview with Jenni Murray, "Being 90 – Diana Athill and Denis Healey discuss what it's like to have reached their ninth decade", Woman's Hour, BBC Radio 4, 22 May 2009
- Diana Athill tells her life story at Web of Stories
- Interview with Jonathan Derbyshire, New Statesman, 20 August 2012
- Lucy Scholes, "Diana Athill on How to Age Gracefully", The Daily Beast, 30 April 2012.
- Midsummer Night in the Workhouse at Persephone Books